I’ve been missing you. Over the past three months I’ve only
blogged a handful of times, but I’ve thought of you, my readers, nearly every
day. I’ll see something I find remarkable, cook something memorable, or hear
something worth repeating, and I’ll think: I
should blog about that. But then I find it impossible to carve out the few
minutes of quiet that it takes to share these happenings with you.
Mostly for my sake, I need to be better about it. Sometimes
I wonder that if I don’t blog about it, did it really happen? You know, like the tree that falls in
the forest: does it make a sound? These days I forget more than I remember, and
I often refer back to my blog to confirm events that I know happened, but I
can’t remember when, or the important details.
So today, I thought I’d commit to telling you about one of
the most significant events to ever happen here at Farm Dover. I’ve been
reliving it all week in my mind, and don’t ever want to forget a single detail,
because, it gives me such happiness to recall it.
On Saturday, September 10, our daughter, Maggie, and her
long-time partner, Nathan, were married in front of the guest cottage in our
backyard, as those dear to them looked on and listened as they made the most
serious of commitments to each other. Nate’s grandfather, Norbert, read from 1
Corinthians 13 and then offered the couple some insights about what it means to
take this step. Afterwards, we celebrated.
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But let me back up a bit and give you some background. Back
in mid-March, Maggie and Nate asked Ed and me to meet them for Sunday brunch at
a neighborhood cafe. They arrived on their bikes, with big smiles on their
faces, and an engagement ring on Maggie’s left hand. (Maggie and Nate met in
2009 during Maggie’s last year of college at the University of Wisconsin and
have been together ever since – although sometimes living in different cities.)
The morning after their joyful announcement, Maggie boarded a plane bound for Los
Angeles for an intensive three-month accelerator program for medical startups.
Before she left, she and Nate agreed that they wanted to get married at Farm
Dover in the early fall and requested that I plan the wedding, keeping it
relatively small and simple in nature. I could do that!
So, between mid-March and early September, life went on, but
was just a bit busier. Ed and I continued to do some traveling and kept up with
all the normal parts of a busy season here on the farm. From Brooklyn, Mary
designed the wedding invitation and Jack came home from China in early August and
went to work getting the farm “wedding ready” as well as learning some new
pieces on his accordion. Maggie and Nate stayed busy with work, renovating
their home, and planning with Nate’s mom and dad a night-before-the-wedding
backyard dinner at their place.
And then, before we knew it, it was time. Well, actually, it
was pouring down rain when it was time. So we just delayed the ceremony for a
bit and instead began the reception. Soon enough, the rain let up and Jack
began to play the prelude. Daughter Mary, Maggie’s maid of honor, walked down
the stone path from the house, and stood with Mike, Nate’s best man and
brother-in-law. Preacher Doug Slagle stood beside Nate. Once the prelude was
finished, there was a pause, then Jack began playing the processional cantata.
Ed took Maggie’s hand and together they made the walk down the path.
Resources and Thank Yous
- Invitation design: Mary Galloway
- Ceremony music: Jack Galloway
- Post dinner duet: Jack Galloway and Amy Pinney
- Photography: Ashley Glass of Ashley Glass Photography
- Officiant: Rev. Doug Slagle
- Catering: Farm to Fork Food
- Pies: Flour de Lis Bakery
- Wine, Beer and Bourbon: The Wine Rack
- Flower arrangements: Kathy Brooks, Jason Jennings and Lynn
Kunau
- Sunflowers, zinnias and wildflowers: Sandy Topy
- Detailed “to do” list: Patrice Paton
- Lunch on Friday: Jackie Bickel
- Table setup: Patrice Paton, Glenda Bumpas, Amy Pinney, Lisa
Pinney, Sherry Leavell and Julie Ensor
- Lunch on Saturday: Patrice Paton
- El Camino beer truck: restored by Nate Pinney, driven to
Farm Dover by Doug Pinney.
- Party in northern Kentucky hosted by Connie and Jeff Schaaf
(Nate’s godparents and aunt and uncle)
- Party in Louisville at the Gralehaus (same night as the
Bardstown Road Zombie Walk!) hosted by Jackie Bickel, Lynn Kunau and Robin
Seiler
- Party on Friday night at Maggie and Nate’s hosted by Lisa
and Doug Pinney
- Morning-after breakfast at Farm Dover hosted by Karen and
Julie Wunderlin; food provided by Wiltshire Pantry
As you can see, this was an effort by lots of people who
joined together to support Maggie and Nate on this, their very special day. We are grateful to them all.